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Bullying is defined as a repetitive attack in verbal and physical means. This can include verbal attacks, physical attacks and relational aggressions. Bullying behaviors are typically carried out to youths that are more vulnerable than the bullies, and may cause great deals of psychological and physical damage (Psychology Today). Many studies have been targeting the issue of bullying worldwide to analyze their causes and influences, and several organizations are designated to research on the current severity of the problem. In 2017, 1 of the 5 students in the US reported themselves as victims of school bullying (Seldin et al., 2019). Also, 41% of them stated that they are concerned that such issue may happen again (Seldin et al., 2019). From these data, it is not hard to see that the issue of bullying is exceptionally severe in the current society, and are extremely harmful to students’ physical health and mental states. The causes and effects of bullying actions are actually varied in many scopes and perspectives. In the same research, the authors got the conclusion that the factors that contributed to the phenomenon is the deficits in appearances, races, genders, disabilities and sexual orientation of the victims (Seldin et al., 2019).That is to say, bullying is a key factor in the victims’ lose of confidence and depression. In their perspective, the victims’ mental struggles between fighting back and staying silent can be an orientation of research and included in one of the scopes of certain people towards the problem of bullying. This essay would analyze the effects bullying can have on the victims and methods we can intervene in the issue.

The effects of being bullied on mental health

The effects of bullying can be evaluated in several perspectives since it induces both physical and mental damages. The populations involved in bullying scenes are classified into 4 parts, including pure bullies, pure victims, bully-victims and neutrals (Haynie et al., 2001). The author conducted a survey to all the students in a school and asked them whether bullying or being bullied, and found that a lot of bullies are or were victims of bullying, so that concluded the 3 types of the whole population. The pure bullies refers to teenagers that bully others but have not been treated harshly by others. The pure victims, in the contrary, refers to the victims that have not bullied anyone else. The neutrals are referred to those who are not involved in the bullying issue, such as the bystanders, who are neither bullies nor victims. The special group is the bully-victims, they are the people who was bullied and turned to bully others (Haynie et al., 2001). All the classifications except neutral generates negative effects, but the bully-victims generate the most(Olweus, 2008). The effects of bullying on the mental health can be talked about with respect to each of the populations.  

In the perspective of pure bullies, they are not completely benefited from their identity as bullies. In some cases, they suffer from their own deeds. Although the bullies experience little insecurity and anxiety, the bullies are found to have poor psychosocial functioning ability (Byrne, 1994; Craig, 1998; Olweus, 1995). The bullies are found to be unpopular among the students or the society, although having a higher status than their victims (Haynie et al., 2001). It causes an inferior loop that the bullies keep bullying, becoming unpopular, and kept bullying to gain a relatively high status to make less people dare to do things against their wills. The continuing of the loop may cause more victims to appear. Moreover, the bullies are comparatively more often than others to commit serious abusing in the future (Cook et al., 2010), and to encourage internal conflicts between their own victims (Caravita et al., 2010).

In terms of the victims, they are the most harmed population. As mentioned above in the section of bullies, the victims suffer more in terms of losing the original status they had when they weren’t bullied. This is possible to induce lose in confidence, self-doubt and depression (Haynie et al., 2001). To be divided into different kinds of harm, the physical harms, including kicking and hitting the victims, not only causes physical injuries, but also leaves stress to the victims due to physical damages and biological disorders(Swearer & Hymel, 2015). This also affects their social interaction capabilities and makes them less able to communicate with others, when asking for help or comfort(Swearer & Hymel, 2015). In another perspective, the verbal harms would include name calling, spreading rumors and a large range of bullying methods that involves humiliating the victims. As researched, this is the most common type of bullying nowadays since physical contacts are too explicit and easy to be spotted(Wang et al., 2009). In the victims’ perspectives, making fun of others is not as inferior as bullying, which is often defined as dominating or manipulating one’s actions at one’s own will to gain a higher status(Cook et al., 2010). So, it is very possible that the bullies are not just making fun of their victims and unintentionally let them hurt, but are serious about harming the victims in terms of their mental health and their reputations. It is researched that  the victims of bullying had been diagnosed to be suffering from food disorders and loss of positive emotions. They also had social skills and reputations under average and perform worse in their tasks(Farrow & Fox, 2011; Kuyendall, 2012). The scholars also suggest that a problem in this is the internalization of the bullying issue. The children may blame themselves for being bullied because of their deficits in skills, appearance or their families (Cook et al., 2010). 

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How can we intervene to Reduce bullying

In order to stop bullying, there are several ways people can intervene, which can be divided intomethods in terms of large scale and small scale. The large scale methods involve implementing regulations and laws to restrict the behavior, and the small scale methods mainly focuses on comforting the individuals and leave choices to smaller institutions like schools and parents. Between the two, the small scaled projects are mostly studied by most people since they are more varied compared to the large scaled ones. Most of the small scaled actions take place in schools, which is believed to be highly influential to students. Also, schools are believed to be a reflection of the real society, and would have reflected most social conflicts as bullying(Hazler, 1996).About the specific solutions, many schools had set up classroom and school wide rules to restrict bullying behaviors. They have also tried to offer lectures involving the bullying contents as well as meeting the different populations of bullying with their own mentors in order to improve their recognition towards the problem(Wurf, 2012, Kärnä et al., 2011, Salmivalli C, Poskiparta E. , 2012, Bauer et al., 2007, Stevens et al., 2000, Olweus, 1997). These steps aim to create a positive school environment and to improve the students’ relationships in the school atmosphere (Bauer et al., 2007, Stevens et al., 2000, Olweus, 1997). It turned out that in the macro perspective, the action had a positive value, however, it also causes unintentional harm to the mental states towards certain students that are different in terms of gender, religions and ethics (Bauer et al., 2007). Another school based method is to offer social skills training, which is SST. The SST method is defined as any forms of training programs involving to enhance one’s ability to socialize and to communicate. This is expected to be helpful to prevent students to become bullies because of inferior communication skills and ask for help if needed (Byrne, 1994; Craig, 1998; Olweus, 1995). The SST method was only implemented in a small amount of schools, so it may not be the most feasible solution in the current situation(DeRosier, 2004). However, it turned out that students have decreased bullying phenomenon in the schools that implemented the method, and it appears to be better compared to the original one in the schools in US, as researched(Wölfer & Scheithauer, 2014, Ando et al., 2007). However, in some schools in other cultures, this measure turned out less effective, one of the cases is a Japaese school, which SST program only decreased 9 victims of bullying(Ando et al., 2007). From these, we see that the school methods can be effective, but it may depend on the culture it is used to determine how effective they are, and this cannot offer a certainly universal solution to all students in all countries, it is important to consider each culture, each school or even each family’s youth separately, so another perspective of small scale solution is the family solution. Family solutions involves the interventions of family members of the bullies or the victims, which are more convenient and easy to carry out. Actually, family members, especially parents who are closer to the youth, are likely to be involved in the bullying issues(Brock et al., 2012). That is to say, parents are possible to induce their children to become bullies or to make them victims(Nickerson & Osborne-Oliver, 2009). In contrary, appropriate education, intervention and caring to the children can control the effect of bullying on the children and control the effect. In a research conducted by researchers, they found that inferior parenting styles and low tendency to solve the problem as well as lack of supervision and even family abusing can be harmful to children and pose risk factors in bullying behaviors, but vice versa, a good parenting style and caring to children can prevent this from happening(Bowes et al., 2010). The aim of the family method would focus on this: to educate the parents about how to prevent their children from booming bullies or being bullied, and to give caring so that they can react to their elders about the matters. The parents would also learn how to deal with the problem , which involves telling the issue to the authority like school or police and how to comfort their children’s feelings after the issue. Through a meta-analysis, it is already justified that parents can have large positive impacts on the victims’ mental states(Lereya et al., 2013). In the study, the researchers collected articles published from 1970 to 2002 using qualified key words like “bully”, “victim” that resemble children along with “parents”, “authoritative” that refer to parents in order to find the most supported conclusions about the relationships of the two. The research eventually selected 6123 articles from three platforms, PsychINFO, Eric, and EMBASE, and the total amount of papers they examined was 11741 articles. The three criteria of their selection are: The studies must include direct relationships between parents, children, schools and bullying behaviors. The authors should offer specific statistical results of their studies, and should come from published and credible sources. Using a method called MOOSE, the meta-analysis coded different behaviors of the children, and analyzed the papers mentioning the effect of them in terms of Age range, Victimization informants,  Victimization subtypes, Victimization status, Designs and Parenting behavior variable. The final conclusion is that parents’ behaviors can both positively and negatively affect the children in terms of facing or carrying out bullying behaviors, and are of very great importance(Lereya et al., 2013). In a research, the author put forward the FSFF method  for family to intervene. FSFF stands for Friendly Schools Friendly Families, and refers to training the whole school and families to build an environment to prevent bullying. The FSFF method was applied to a school for 3 years for this project, and it involved over 1400 families, and they get information about how to prevent bullying. Finally, the method appeared to be useful in controlling such behavior(Lester et al., 2017). A family solution seems to be useful, but it would be not feasible to assemble all students and parents to teach such knowledge. Considering cultural and budget factors, many schools and parents are not keen on fixing psychological or interpersonal problems of students. In many schools in China, for example, students get refused several times when asking for help after being bullied, often find psychological aids useless or be seen as weak and timid and refused to help by their parents. For instance, according to local institutions in Zhengzhou, a city in China, there are already over 13 percent of students feeling reluctant to go to school in the fourth grade, and the stat kept growing to about 27.8 percent in tenth grade. Apart from this, in the tenth grade, over 87 percent of students developed reluctance to study(Jin & Zhu, 2021). The feeling is likely caused by many factors. They may include pressure from the peers, society and parents, and certainly, bullying. According to surveys, the development of the feeling may be caused by the over justification of study and great emphasis of scores in schools, causing students to form classes according to the scores they have because that would determine how teachers judge a student’s trait and shape the teachers’ preference. However, schools typically place little attention on the psychological states of the students, especially those with low grades(Lu et al., 2024). That is a consequence of a major tendency of many people neglecting the influences bullying can have to one, and that psychological problems are important enough  to be considered in one’s life. Here, we would need to offer large scale solutions: solutions based on all population in a society, and is able to generate a large influence. In some places, the major departments already takes step to ensure the students’ studying conditions, and the people didn’t stay idle and actively asked the institutions for requests of actions. In Hong Kong, the institution EDB had received a total of 35 requests that asked for actions to reduce bullying although the schools are said to handle all matters well, and they posed zero tolerance to such behavior. In order to counter this behavior, the government encouraged schools to design certain curriculums, activities and departments to reduce bullying. This includes a campaign with the theme of “Harmonious School – Anti-bullying”, and offering “Information Literacy for Hong Kong Students” learning network for the schools and the students to protect their personal information for real and cyber bullying. The institution EDB also cooperated with the government and non-government institutions to join forces to solve the problem. Specifically, one of the non-government institutions offered a telephone hotline support to all students in the local area to report about bullying issues, which strongly boosted the progress of the action. Moreover, Hong Kong government not only had soft solutions, but also hard ones. This include employing police forces to enforce the regulations of bullying behavior. The government employed police for each school that specialize in solving problems of bullying and defending the mental states of the students. Not only real bullying, even cyberbullying behaviors can be accused and found using the police forces. The police are also in charge of preventing crimes developed from bullying, and also rising the awareness of society about crimes(The Government of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region, 2023). However, it appears to be rare that a government can be so efficient and able to spend such resources on the bullying interventions, a rather loose method, like pure online education, is put forward in some districts, but appeared not useful. A proper large scale solution should still be considered for a longer time. 

How to improve the mental states of the bullied population.

The methods of recovery for the adolescents to be freed from the shadow of bullying would mostly involve the support from family, therapy and change in recognition of the problem. Since bullying may generate large problems, it is urgent for us to comfort the feelings of these people and help them regain their confidence. A framework called developmental assets framework highlights several protective factors that buffers negative influences to one’s mind and thinking process, this includes support from parents or other adults outside the family; supportive and caring school environment; feeling safe at home and in school; school and family environment that has clear and consistent guidelines for behaviour; engagement and bonding with school; social competencies; and high self-esteem (Scales et al., 2004, Leffert et al., 1998). A rejected individual would be in strong desire of belonging and acceptance, and it is possible that they became bullies later on, which emerges the bully-victim population mentioned in the former parts(Downey & Feldman, 1996). It is important to create senses of safety and security among these bullied population. As mentioned above, creating an appropriate and safe school environment would work to comfort the victims, and also, at a smaller scale, parents may also provide such feelings. To be specific, the sense of safety is more likely to be developed from parents of certain styles, like supportive ones offering constant cares(Kerig et al., 2014). One of the methods is to resolve the problem in terms of social network. This would have to find someone that are sympathetic of the victims and establish conversations. Studies have proved that the victims having friends to talk to are more outgoing than those who don’t(Kochenderfer‐Ladd, 2004, Smith et al., 2004). Another feasible methods is the SST method. SST focuses on training the skills of the victims to communicate with people, by improving social skills, they would be able to rebuild confidence and self-esteem, therefore face the society with more positive attitudes. SST can change one’s definition of oneself, and alleviate their anxious feeling about this (Blakeney et al., 2005; Edwards et al., 2011). In the study conducted by Maddern and his colleges, the combined method of CBT and SST made a monumental success on the improvements of the mental states of the subjects, who were faced by serious mental illnesses(Maddern et al., 2006). 

Conclusion

From the contents discussed, we knew how the bullies and the victims get psychologically wounded, ways to reduce the bullying phenomenon and how to comfort the feelings of ones that are already bullied. Surprisingly, in the articles we have found, the methods to reduce the effect have a lot of similarities and relationships with the means to comfort the feelings of the victims. For example, Improving home and school environments can not only prevent bullying, but also increase confidence of the bullied population and comfort them. This may mean that if we can control the situation, not only would the phenomenon of bullying be reduced, but also the victims can face their lives more positively under such environments. The scars of bullying would eventually diminish due to changes in the people and society. Specifically, the consequences of being bullied would be reflected on both the bullies and the victims, especially in terms of socializing skills and social grades. It is hard but urgent to offer a solution. In terms of the methods to reduce it, many schools, families and government are not acting out as well to limit this phenomenon, and it would be needed for schools, families, governments and organizations to join forces to make a difference. As it comes to comforting the victims, it is highly linked with the environment, if bullying phenomenon is still present, it would be still possible that new bullies may emerge from the victims. In contract, with the phenomenon controlled, the number of bullies would not expand as much, and the victims can feel secure and walk out from the shadows. To draw a conclusion, all the progress depends on how people counteract and discourage the behavior of bullying. People have to acknowledge the negative sides of this behavior and to stop it with full strength. One is unable to do it alone, and it requires the awareness of individuals, families, governments and schools.

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一个“音乐疗愈”的小视频(我的公益)

音乐、大自然声响、香氛、疗愈、冥想、分享……当这些元素互相碰撞,会产生怎样的奇妙反应?夏日夜晚,在苏州工业园区斜塘街道菁英公寓社区,一群年轻人正以一种特别的方式为身心解压。他们聚在香气环绕的室内,安静地席地而卧,伴着疗愈乐器和原创自然音乐编织出的旋律逐渐放松。音声疗愈师华璨敲击着乐器,颂钵空灵、海浪鼓沙沙作响,从轻柔到激烈再到轻柔,体验者在音乐和冥想中抛开压力……正在进行的,是一场音声疗愈活动。

用音乐治疗给予心灵力量。在生活和工作节奏不断加快的今天,疗愈消费受到大众的欢迎,不少人甚至把它变成了生活的一部分。本期“96466故事苏州”,一起走近这群用音声疗愈生活的人。

从帮儿子改善睡眠开始

他把音疗玩出新花样

在园区一处艺术广场内,循着悠扬的音乐,找到这家名叫“瑞米”的艺术空间。推门进入,声音与香气交织,悠然的氛围不由得让人放慢动作、放松心情。迎面坐着的是创始人华璨。他是一名音乐教育者,也是一名音声疗愈师。

音声疗愈活动现场,参与者体验心灵解压。

从工作到生活,华璨的日常总是围着音符旋转。在音乐上他总是不断创新和探索,在5年前他开始接触音声疗愈,最初想通过它帮助时常受睡眠不佳困扰的儿子。“小时候,孩子入睡常常被不安的梦境影响,即便是最温柔的睡前故事与摇篮曲,也难以赶走辗转反侧的不安。”华璨说道。

在他看来音疗的基础是音乐。音乐本身就是一种声音能量,通过特定的声音频率与振动,可以与身体产生共鸣,从而调整身心状态,让人宁静舒展。他被此深深吸引,决定深入研究,得到世界品牌的音疗师认证,试着用它解决小朋友的睡眠问题。对此,华璨的太太山而自有体会:“起初效果并不显著,但随着时间的推移,感觉小朋友入睡确实越来越快,睡眠质量也明显提升,我认为这种疗愈方式确实提供了不小的帮助。”

看着孩子的改变,夫妇俩心中涌起了一个愿望——将自己对音乐的热爱转化为帮助更多人的动力。

慢慢地,华璨和团队开始将在音乐领域的专长,与传统音声疗愈融合,设计出全新的疗愈模式,保留了原有音声疗愈的特色,并创新性地加入了丰富多样的乐器与音乐元素,录制了许多新创的疗愈音乐。他们模拟自然界的声音——海浪拍岸的温柔、林间鸟鸣的欢快、果实落地的清脆……这些声音交织成一幅幅生动画面,引领听者步入宁静致远的意境中。

不仅如此,他们还将音声疗愈与香氛疗愈相结合,针对不同的群体设计个性化的疗愈方案:属于教师等人群的音疗时光,有轻音乐与温柔的玫瑰香氛相伴,脱离尘世宁静悠远的氛围缓解一天的劳累。清新的柠檬香气或搭配节奏明快的音乐,更受学生喜爱,如同在无忧无虑畅游海洋。充满激情的青年群体与橘子香气更配,熟悉而略带青涩的味道与悠扬音声融合,让人忘却烦恼,如同被带回无忧无虑的童年夏天……

音声疗愈师和参与者在活动中互动

唤醒内心的力量

把坏情绪“挪”出身体

在瑞米音乐众多参加音声疗愈活动的伙伴中,晨曦是一个特别的存在。

由于学习、生活的压力,Ray曾一度失去自信,长期焦虑使他的头发大量脱落。出于对爵士鼓的热爱,晨曦走进了音乐的世界,沉浸其中让他暂时忘却烦恼。“每一次敲响爵士鼓时,浑厚而有力的鼓声仿佛能穿透胸膛,直击心灵深处。那一刻,我能感受到前所未有的震撼与共鸣,这是能够唤醒内心力量的声音。”Ray说道。

说起Ray初来乍到时的模样,山而印象很深:“他不愿意与人交流。我看到他眼里的挣扎。”没有过多询问,老师们用音乐的力量让他眼里有了更多光芒。一段时间的学习和相处后,Ray逐渐敞开心扉,愿意与别人沟通交流,甚至主动和山而提起曾经那段不美好的回忆,他逐渐在音乐中找回了自信与勇气,从那个心思敏感的孩子,变成了自信开朗的青年。

如今,Ray即将成为一名心理学专业的大学生。他深知音乐对于心灵的力量,主动申请成为团队的一员,一起参与各种音乐疗愈会,愿将这份力量传递给更多人。在音乐疗愈的舞台上,他不再是默默无闻的鼓手,他用鼓声诉说故事,并主动分享自己的经历,成为自信与爱的传播者,“我们在互动中表达自己,也感受到别人的共鸣,感觉坏情绪被挪出了身体”。

“我想要告诉大家,即使在最黑暗的时刻也不要放弃希望,因为总有一束光会照亮前行的道路,它可以是音乐,可以是志同道合的人的支持激励,也可以是其他任何美好的事物。我也希望通过这种方式结交更多同样热爱音乐的朋友。”晨曦说。

一场户外音声疗愈会,给参与者带来特别体验

N种方式享受音疗

打造更多人心中的绿洲

“我需要一个出口,去排解内心的情绪和压力!”正因为有这样的需求,各种不同主题的音声疗愈活动越发有人气,吸引了不同人群体验尝试。华璨带领团队通过社区合作、公益链接等方式,为高学历、高压力群体提供一个安全、包容的空间,定制各种音声疗愈活动。还有不少上班族会在午休时组团预约,刚好利用这个时间通过音疗放松休息,每次的人数也从几人到十余人不等。

每天两点一线穿梭在钢筋混凝土建造的楼宇里,上班族高轩宇时常感到疲惫。上月底,他参加了一场以“橘子汽水”为主题的音声疗愈会。“第一次,我是跟朋友来尝鲜的。结果发现一小时的疗愈时光并不无聊,反而让自己沉下心与自己对话,整个人感觉舒缓很多,不再绷得那么紧,就像周末好好休息了两天。”高轩宇表示,通过疗愈,他找到了如何更好地管理情绪、缓解压力的办法。

不同于“橘子汽水”的温馨氛围,“我喜欢”音声疗愈会则以一场别开生面的户外活动,让能量在更广阔的舞台上迸发。在这场音声疗愈会上,大家无须遵循传统疗愈的固定模式,尽情跟随音乐舞动,唱歌奏乐一起嗨,接触自然释放自我。不同年龄段的听众被无形的纽带连接,大家分享着各自的故事;家长与孩子在音乐的海洋中找到共同语言,中年人与青年人在旋律的引领下,打破了年龄的界限,尽情地畅聊、享受,许多人在活动结束后仍意犹未尽。“就像为心灵做了一次SPA。”一名参与者说道。

家庭主妇沈静姝说:“平日里管教女儿学习鸡飞狗跳,我们的关系也剑拔弩张。通过这次的音声疗愈会,我们真正平心静气,彼此好好沟通,母女间的矛盾解开了,又回到了无话不谈的状态。我想,我还会带女儿来参加这样的音声疗愈会。”

华璨和山而希望,音声疗愈能成为更多人心中的绿洲。“努力找寻最合适的方式给予自己力量,这不仅是一种疗愈手段,更是一种生活态度。”

(苏报融媒记者 葛芝 实习生 董玲慧 文/摄/视频 部分图片由受访者提供)

江南时报:共度“橘香音愈”夜,同享心灵清凉时(我的公益)

江南时报讯 7月30日,在这个酷暑炎炎的夏日,苏州工业园区斜塘街道菁英公寓社区党支部为小区青年人才带来一场别开生面的“橘香音愈”音声疗愈活动。活动由社区党支部精心策划,希望通过独特的音声疗愈,带领青年人共赴一场心灵之邀,一起沉浸式度过一个充满治愈与宁静的美好夜晚。

  活动现场,年轻的专业音声疗愈师王子睿等以自然乐器编织出天籁之音,旋律悠扬,大家缓缓闭上眼睛,慢慢开始一场心灵的释放之旅。清新淡雅的橘香在大家朦胧睡梦见弥漫开来,它如同夏日里的一缕清风,轻轻佛过心田,带走白日的喧嚣与疲惫。在橘香环绕中,悠扬的音乐缓缓响起,它如同山间的清泉,潺潺流淌,又如夕阳下的那缕清风,缓缓吹过,洗涤着浮躁的心灵,让大家感受到前所未有的宁静和安详。

  橘香和音乐交织,让大家感受到前所未有的美妙体验。闭上眼睛,深呼吸,每个人都可以感受到这份清凉与宁静渗透到每一个细胞,睁开眼睛,青年居民开始敞开心扉,和身边人开始分享彼此记忆里深刻的故事,或悲伤,或喜悦,在娓娓道来中,都成长成生命力不可或缺的过往。青年居民小高说:“此次活动非常新鲜,一小时空灵的音乐能够让自己沉下心与自己对话,营造了非常好的场域,心理能量也立刻提升了,比周末休息两天都管用。”

  此次“橘香音愈”活动对小区青年人才来说,不仅是一次身体上的放松与享受,更是一次心灵上的洗礼与升华,它让大家在忙碌于浮躁的生活中找到了片刻的宁静与自我,让大家重新认识生活的美好与价值。

  据了解,此次活动也是菁英公寓社区书记项目“青春新志,锻造精英”心理放松课系列活动的又一尝试和创新。未来,菁英公寓社区将继续秉承为打造青年人才的“后大学时代”而努力,推出更多丰富多彩的活动,为青年居民带来更多惊喜与收获。(李少楠)

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